Beauty in the Broken Places
A deeply moving memoir about two lives that were changed in the blink of an eye, and the love that helped them rewrite their futureFive months pregnant, on a flight to their “babymoon,” Allison Pataki turned to her husband when he asked if his eye looked strange, and watched him suddenly lose consciousness. After an emergency landing, she discovered that Dave—a healthy thirty-year-old athlete and surgical resident—had suffered a rare and life-threatening stroke. Next thing Allison knew, she was sitting alone in the ER in Fargo, North Dakota, waiting to hear if her husband would survive the night.When Dave woke up, he could not carry memories from hour to hour, much less from one day to the next. Allison lost the Dave she knew and loved when he lost consciousness on the plane. Within a few months, she found herself caring for both a newborn and a sick husband, struggling with the fear of what was to come.As a way to make sense of the pain and chaos of their new reality, Allison started to write daily letters to Dave. Not only would she work to make sense of the unfathomable experiences unfolding around her, but her letters would provide Dave with the memories he could not make on his own. She was writing to preserve their past, protect their present, and fight for their future. Those letters became the foundation for this beautiful, intimate memoir. And in the process, she fell in love with her husband all over again.This is a manifesto for living, an ultimately uplifting story about the transformative power of faith and resilience. It’s a tale of a husband’s turbulent road to recovery, the shifting nature of marriage, and the struggle of loving through pain and finding joy in the broken places.

Beauty in the Broken Places Details

TitleBeauty in the Broken Places
Author
ReleaseFeb 1st, 2019
PublisherRandom House Trade
ISBN-139780399591679
Rating
GenreAutobiography, Memoir, Nonfiction, Biography, Biography Memoir

Beauty in the Broken Places Review

  • Jennifer ~ TarHeelReader & Traveling Sister
    January 1, 1970
    5 poignant and brave stars to Beauty in the Broken Places! ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ I have been a fan of Allison Pataki’s books because she writes in my favorite genre, historical fiction. In Beauty in the Broken Places, she bares her extraordinary heart in a personal memoir. When she was five months pregnant, her young husband had a stroke while on a flight to their babymoon. Their lives were forever changed, but Allison easily found the silver lining and highlighted it in this book. During his recovery, Alli 5 poignant and brave stars to Beauty in the Broken Places! ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ I have been a fan of Allison Pataki’s books because she writes in my favorite genre, historical fiction. In Beauty in the Broken Places, she bares her extraordinary heart in a personal memoir. When she was five months pregnant, her young husband had a stroke while on a flight to their babymoon. Their lives were forever changed, but Allison easily found the silver lining and highlighted it in this book. During his recovery, Allison wrote letters to her husband every day. She made an effort to include things that happened he would not remember on his own. The letters are at the heart of this memorable book. Bottom line, Beauty in the Broken Places is filled with stunning writing, heartbreakingly beautiful emotion, and abundant inspiration. Like Allison says, “May we always remember.” Thank you to Allison Pataki, Random House, and Netgalley for the ARC. Beauty in the Broke Places is available now!This and other reviews are available on my shiny new blog! www.jennifertarheelreader.com
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  • Liz
    January 1, 1970
    “When Dave woke up from a near fatal stroke, age thirty, beautiful, seemingly strong and outwardly intact, he couldn’t carry memories from hour to hour, much less from one day to the next.”I had enjoyed Pataki’s novel Where the Light Falls, so I was curious about her memoir concerning her husband’s stroke when she was five months pregnant. She spends a large portion of the beginning of the book bringing us up to date on how they arrived as this point. Their meeting, courtship, early marriage. Th “When Dave woke up from a near fatal stroke, age thirty, beautiful, seemingly strong and outwardly intact, he couldn’t carry memories from hour to hour, much less from one day to the next.”I had enjoyed Pataki’s novel Where the Light Falls, so I was curious about her memoir concerning her husband’s stroke when she was five months pregnant. She spends a large portion of the beginning of the book bringing us up to date on how they arrived as this point. Their meeting, courtship, early marriage. They didn’t have it easy, but she still gives it too much of a fairy tale tint to it. I get that these were two people very much in love. But this is the weakest part of the book. The back and forth is used to impress on the reader how everything changed in the (literally) blink of an eye. Most of us who marry will recite the traditional marriage vows. But most of us, like Alli, don’t expect the “in sickness” part to rear its ugly head until well into our later years. The scariest/saddest part of the book for me was when their dog did not recognize the altered, post stroke Dave. She gives us enough medical explanation, especially concerning executive functioning, so that we understand what they’re experiencing. There are some lovely passages on faith here and I found myself highlighting whole pages. This is an inspiring book that serves as a wonderful reminder to all of us that life cannot be taken for granted. My thanks to netgalley and Random House for an advance copy of this book.
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  • Allison
    January 1, 1970
    I look forward to sharing this book with you all. Thank you so much for reading.
  • Mandie
    January 1, 1970
    So many feelings for this amazing memoir! Allison wrote daily letters to her husband Dave after he suffered a rare and life-threatening stroke! Sharing her journey of trials and tribulations! And how she fell in love with her husband all over again! This book moved me in such a way that there are no worlds to describe! I shed some major tears! I would absolutely recommend this book, to anyone and everyone!I voluntarily read and reviewed an advance copy of this book. All thoughts and opinions are So many feelings for this amazing memoir! Allison wrote daily letters to her husband Dave after he suffered a rare and life-threatening stroke! Sharing her journey of trials and tribulations! And how she fell in love with her husband all over again! This book moved me in such a way that there are no worlds to describe! I shed some major tears! I would absolutely recommend this book, to anyone and everyone!I voluntarily read and reviewed an advance copy of this book. All thoughts and opinions are my own!
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  • Camille Maio
    January 1, 1970
    Five stars to author Allison Pataki for opening up a window into the life of her family after a devastating and unexpected stroke befell her young husband. I know from experience that things we think we might have to face when we're older come as a great surprise when they happen many decades earlier. I was moved by her faith and the strength of her family, but also her honesty about the times she felt like giving up. A sure winner, Pataki's book will resonate with anyone who has struggled - tha Five stars to author Allison Pataki for opening up a window into the life of her family after a devastating and unexpected stroke befell her young husband. I know from experience that things we think we might have to face when we're older come as a great surprise when they happen many decades earlier. I was moved by her faith and the strength of her family, but also her honesty about the times she felt like giving up. A sure winner, Pataki's book will resonate with anyone who has struggled - that is, anyone who is human.I received a copy of this book from Net Galley in exchange for an honest review.
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  • Lillian
    January 1, 1970
    This was an emotional read. It is a memoir telling the heartbreaking story of recovery from a stroke. Dave Levy, a thirty year old orthopedic resident suffers a catostrophic brain injury. The author, Alison Patacki is pregnant and walks every step of the way with her husband through rehabilitation. Love and faith. Family and friends. Doctors and specialists. The letters Alison wrote through out the trying days of recovery show the strength and resilience of this love story. #beautyinthebrokenpla This was an emotional read. It is a memoir telling the heartbreaking story of recovery from a stroke. Dave Levy, a thirty year old orthopedic resident suffers a catostrophic brain injury. The author, Alison Patacki is pregnant and walks every step of the way with her husband through rehabilitation. Love and faith. Family and friends. Doctors and specialists. The letters Alison wrote through out the trying days of recovery show the strength and resilience of this love story. #beautyinthebrokenplaces #alisonpataki
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  • Cheryl
    January 1, 1970
    Allison Pataki and Dave Levy met while they were students at Yale University. They began dating and slowly realized that they each had met a soulmate. They married and began their lives together. Allison worked as a television news writer but hoped to eventually become a writer of historical fiction. Dave began medical school. In 2015, Allison and Dave found out that they were to become parents and decided to celebrate by going on a “babymoon” trip to Hawaii. While in flight, Dave turned to Alli Allison Pataki and Dave Levy met while they were students at Yale University. They began dating and slowly realized that they each had met a soulmate. They married and began their lives together. Allison worked as a television news writer but hoped to eventually become a writer of historical fiction. Dave began medical school. In 2015, Allison and Dave found out that they were to become parents and decided to celebrate by going on a “babymoon” trip to Hawaii. While in flight, Dave turned to Allison and asked, “Does my right eye look weird? I can’t see anything out of it.” Shortly after that he closed his eyes and was unconscious.In this beautifully written memoir, Allison describes how their lives, in a matter of minutes, were changed forever. It’s a powerfully moving story of family, love, perseverance, faith, and hope that is hard to put down.Thank you to Bookreporter, Random House, and author Allison Pataki for giving me the opportunity to read the ARC of this unforgettable book.
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  • Linda Zagon
    January 1, 1970
    MY REVIEW OF “BEAUTY IN THE BROKEN PLACES: A MEMOIR OF LOVE, FAITH AND RESILIENCE”Allison Pataki, Author of “Beauty in the Broken Places : A Memoir of Love, Faith and Resilience” has written an amazing, emotional, heart-wrenching ,captivating and thoughtful memoir. Can you imagine a thiry year old pregnant woman, and her thirty year old husband, (who is a third year medical resident), facing an unknow tragedy?The author and her husband were off on a “baby-moon” to enjoy a much-needed vacation, w MY REVIEW OF “BEAUTY IN THE BROKEN PLACES: A MEMOIR OF LOVE, FAITH AND RESILIENCE”Allison Pataki, Author of “Beauty in the Broken Places : A Memoir of Love, Faith and Resilience” has written an amazing, emotional, heart-wrenching ,captivating and thoughtful memoir. Can you imagine a thiry year old pregnant woman, and her thirty year old husband, (who is a third year medical resident), facing an unknow tragedy?The author and her husband were off on a “baby-moon” to enjoy a much-needed vacation, when her young husband has a life threatening stroke on the airplane. The Airplane is forced to make an emergency landing, and Allison Pataki is faced life threatening challenges.The Author starts to write everything down, to keep it as something to show her husband if he survives. I admire the author’s honesty, courage, dignity, resourcefulness, compassion, and loyalty. When the author was struggling to cope she turned to loved ones for help, and she kept praying. Allison Pataki had hope and faith. I would recommend this beautiful written memoir to other readers. I received an ARC from NetGalley for my honest review.Share
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  • Lillian
    January 1, 1970
    Allison "Alli" Pataki never imagined that her babymoon trip would result in a hospital trip. Her thirty-year-old husband, Dr David Levy suffered a stroke while en route trip to Hawaii. Beauty in the Broken Places is a product of the letters that she wrote to her husband during his treatment. Allison shifts back and forth in time referencing their relationship journey while holding the hope that the "old Dave" come back to her.Most people start these kinds of personal projects with the hope of he Allison "Alli" Pataki never imagined that her babymoon trip would result in a hospital trip. Her thirty-year-old husband, Dr David Levy suffered a stroke while en route trip to Hawaii. Beauty in the Broken Places is a product of the letters that she wrote to her husband during his treatment. Allison shifts back and forth in time referencing their relationship journey while holding the hope that the "old Dave" come back to her.Most people start these kinds of personal projects with the hope of helping others but end up experiencing catharsis and self-discovery. Allison's journey of maturing in her faith will be evident to her readers. Alli says that she had experienced luck although her life from her privileged youth to her stable relationship with Dave. However, Dave's stroke helped her recognise the difference between innocence and purity. While the former is circumstantial that is dependent on exposure or experience, purity is about an active choice that can only be attained through passing a test or trial. She recognises that prior to Dave's accident she possesses the faith of the innocent which was easy to keep. However, this new normal helped expose the weaknesses in her faith that she needed to re-examine and work through. As she says:"Ultimately, I realized, this was the moment when things between God and me finally got real. This was when I needed to live the faith that I had been thinking, for thirty-one years, that I had been living. I did not understand why the things that had happened had happened. But did I still—even in that place of not knowing or understanding, especially in that place of not knowing or understanding—believe that God was with me? Was He there beside me in my pain and brokenness, just as I had always believed Him to be beside me in my joy? Did I believe that God could take this heartbreak and this fear and this fatigue and somehow weave something beautiful from all of the frayed and feeble threads? That there was a divine plan at work here, a much larger picture than the one I could see, a framework that exceeded my capacity to understand?"Readers will fall in love with the couple and their journey of re-discovery and will make them yearn for intentionality in their relationships. If you loved the late Dr Paul Kalanathi's book When Breathe Becomes Air, then this book is right up your alley. Like Kalanithi, Allison has her way with words but without the more technical and philosophical tone that can be attributed to his medical training. Personally, I have never read any of her historical fiction novels which she wrote mostly during this trying period. Beauty in the Broken Places has piqued my interest in what else she has in store.
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  • Meg - A Bookish Affair
    January 1, 1970
    Many people take a marriage vow that says you will take care of each other in sickness and in health. Many people don't think that you are going to have make good on that promise early on in your marriage. As Allison and Dave find out in "Beauty in the Broken Places," this isn't always the case and sometimes life throws you curve balls that can seem insurmountable. Allison and Dave were on their babymoon when Dave was struck by a stroke that leaves him clinging to life. Allison almost loses the Many people take a marriage vow that says you will take care of each other in sickness and in health. Many people don't think that you are going to have make good on that promise early on in your marriage. As Allison and Dave find out in "Beauty in the Broken Places," this isn't always the case and sometimes life throws you curve balls that can seem insurmountable. Allison and Dave were on their babymoon when Dave was struck by a stroke that leaves him clinging to life. Allison almost loses the father of her child and her beloved husband. Together they will triumph and show that there truly can be beauty in the broken places.My husband and I are in our early thirties. We have two young kids. We have a happy life and we are totally guilty of thinking that we are invincible. It's easy to do that and to lose the idea that anything can happen and life can throw you those proverbial lemons even during the happiest times in your life. Alli and Dave are in their prime too and I think it was the similarities between us and our relationships that really pulled me into the book. Allison, up until this book, was best known for her historical fiction (which I have loved). This initially drew me to the book but I stayed for the great detail that Allison gave about all that Dave had to go through to recover and all that she had to do herself in order to get herself through his recover. The recovery from a stroke is truly amazing. I loved reading and was so inspired by both Dave and Allison in this book. I love books that showcase the triumph of the human spirit and this book certainly does that. If you want to be super inspired, this is the perfect pick!
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  • Rebecca
    January 1, 1970
    Memoir of how author (Allison) and her husband (Dave) survived his stroke at age 30.Utilizing the letters and notes written during her husband Dave's recovery, the author of this beautiful memoir provided an intimate look at how she and Dave overcame his incapacitating stroke at age 30. Despite being a healthy, athletic doctor, Dave suffered a massive stroke while he and Allison were in a plane flying to their babymoon. Five months pregnant, what followed was Allison's account of their struggle Memoir of how author (Allison) and her husband (Dave) survived his stroke at age 30.Utilizing the letters and notes written during her husband Dave's recovery, the author of this beautiful memoir provided an intimate look at how she and Dave overcame his incapacitating stroke at age 30. Despite being a healthy, athletic doctor, Dave suffered a massive stroke while he and Allison were in a plane flying to their babymoon. Five months pregnant, what followed was Allison's account of their struggle to heal after being utterly broken. Was Dave able to participate in the birth of his first child? What was the recovery process like for him, and for Allison? How is he doing today? Find out in this breathtaking and inspirational look at surviving a tragedy with faith and resilience."The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong at the broken places." - Ernest HemingwayI would highly recommend this for anyone who loves someone suffering from debilitating health issues, and I look forward to reading more from this author!Thank you to the author and the publisher for an advance copy of this book! All opinions are my own.Location: New York City, New York and Chicago, Illinois
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  • Kait
    January 1, 1970
    I was given an advanced copy of this book through NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.It's scary to think that every single person on this planet could suffer a traumatic brain injury that will irreparably alter their plans for the future. Most of us get lucky and never have to face this conundrum, but Allison and her husband Dave are not so fortunate. Dave suffers a terrible stroke deep in his brain and must re-learn how to be a person again and at the same time, Allison gives birth to t I was given an advanced copy of this book through NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.It's scary to think that every single person on this planet could suffer a traumatic brain injury that will irreparably alter their plans for the future. Most of us get lucky and never have to face this conundrum, but Allison and her husband Dave are not so fortunate. Dave suffers a terrible stroke deep in his brain and must re-learn how to be a person again and at the same time, Allison gives birth to their first child while raising her husband from his own infancy.Pataki writes with so much emotion--I could feel her agonies, her frustrations, her joys. This book was an incredible work. Even though I am not religious, I honestly sat back and thought about Pataki's deep faith in God and what I would do in such a situation. I realized that I would pray to every deity out there. No sense in not stacking the deck in our favor. I love a book that makes me re-evaluate my own beliefs and goals in life. Pataki's Beauty in Broken Places did just that. Fantastic!
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  • Marya Myers
    January 1, 1970
    A beautiful look at the power of a relationship during a trying time. It reminds us all to believe in the strength of the human spirit. Thank you for sharing your story!
  • Donna Hines
    January 1, 1970
    Beauty in the Broken Places is a powerful memoir about the power of love, the strength through adversity, and ultimately the will to survive.This powerful, moving, intricate and very delicate topic of the power of sickness and the movement to heal through love is brought to you by Allison Pataki after her young husband Dave finds himself unconscious after having a massive stroke.On their flight which was coined 'BabyMoon' having been 5 months pregnant Allison finds herself questioning why this h Beauty in the Broken Places is a powerful memoir about the power of love, the strength through adversity, and ultimately the will to survive.This powerful, moving, intricate and very delicate topic of the power of sickness and the movement to heal through love is brought to you by Allison Pataki after her young husband Dave finds himself unconscious after having a massive stroke.On their flight which was coined 'BabyMoon' having been 5 months pregnant Allison finds herself questioning why this happened to a very healthy individual who up to that point never questioned his appearances nor his right eye drooping.Yet, deep down they both knew they were in the fight for their lives.What would you do if faced with a life altering challenge that could possibly take your life and that of someone whom you love deeply?Would you find a way to correct the wrongs or would you become complacent and hope for change?This is the story of Allison in a way that forever alters everyone who reads it as it's filled with love, compassion, and truths.It's heartfelt, emotionally raw, and powerfully moving because in the face of their toughest battle they choose to go through it together.What makes this story truly unique is that Dave lost much of his cognitive abilities and couldn't remember his past much less carry on without a full time caretaker.This new challenging position was thrust upon Allison yet she would not falter in this tidal wave of emotions.Struggling to make ends meet while tending to a newborn and a husband she inadvertently found her reason for living and the rainbow at the end of this dark tunnel.Falling in love with her husband a second time wouldn't have been made possible without the power of 'words' taken to a journal while the memories where slowly fading away. Allison took pen to paper and wrote this memoir for a lasting legacy and tribute to the power of love , the strength through adversity, the faith in a higher power, and the resilience to continue moving forward.Beautiful!Thank you to Allison, her publisher, NetGalley, and Aldiko for this e-read copy in exchange for this honest review. Though I just missed her call out online for this book to be reviewed I was lucky enough to snag this 'read now' copy and I'm so grateful I received it. A must read for 2018!
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  • Kristen Cook - A Book Ninja
    January 1, 1970
    What a beautiful story with so many wonderful bits of wisdom. While I was reading this book, I felt like I was sitting down with a friend talking. Pataki does a splendid job of laying out the story of Dave and her courtship and early years in marriage mixed with the heartbreaking yet beautiful story of Dave's recovery. Pataki does an amazing job balancing out the story of Dave's recovery. It would have been so easy for her as the wife and author to not look at his side of the story and only focu What a beautiful story with so many wonderful bits of wisdom. While I was reading this book, I felt like I was sitting down with a friend talking. Pataki does a splendid job of laying out the story of Dave and her courtship and early years in marriage mixed with the heartbreaking yet beautiful story of Dave's recovery. Pataki does an amazing job balancing out the story of Dave's recovery. It would have been so easy for her as the wife and author to not look at his side of the story and only focus on her feelings in the midst of this trial.I appreciate her inclusion of faith and her dependance on God during this time. Pataki's blunt statements on faith are so spot on that I wanted to weep in agreement. For someone that experience a traumatic unexpected loss of her dad the tender age of 25, I could not agree more. I had to decide that my faith had to mean the same when life was good and when life was hard and bitter. Pataki makes the statement throughout the book: "May we always remember". Just one of the many nuggets of wisdom in the book. I received an advance copy of this book. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
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  • Denise
    January 1, 1970
    What an inspiring book!!! I was riveted reading about Allison and her husband, Dave. Five months pregnant, her husband suffered an extremely rare stroke on the plane on the way to their babymoon. What follows is their heart wrenching, yet full of hope story. I literally just couldn't put it down. I loved how it alternated between past and present, telling their story from the day they met up till today. Allison's faith was encouraging and heartwarming, and I pray that Dave continues to recover a What an inspiring book!!! I was riveted reading about Allison and her husband, Dave. Five months pregnant, her husband suffered an extremely rare stroke on the plane on the way to their babymoon. What follows is their heart wrenching, yet full of hope story. I literally just couldn't put it down. I loved how it alternated between past and present, telling their story from the day they met up till today. Allison's faith was encouraging and heartwarming, and I pray that Dave continues to recover and makes a full 100% recovery.Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for providing a copy of this book for review.
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  • Carla Suto
    January 1, 1970
    BEAUTY IN THE BROKEN PLACES by Allison Pataki is a beautifully-written and deeply moving memoir of how the author and her family coped with the aftermath of her 30-year-old husband Dave suffering a sudden and life-threatening stroke while they were on a plane heading to a much-needed vacation in Hawaii. Five months pregnant with their first child, she is suddenly faced with making life-changing decisions and with the uncertainty of the future for her husband and new family. With honesty and cour BEAUTY IN THE BROKEN PLACES by Allison Pataki is a beautifully-written and deeply moving memoir of how the author and her family coped with the aftermath of her 30-year-old husband Dave suffering a sudden and life-threatening stroke while they were on a plane heading to a much-needed vacation in Hawaii. Five months pregnant with their first child, she is suddenly faced with making life-changing decisions and with the uncertainty of the future for her husband and new family. With honesty and courage, Pataki opens her heart to her readers and reveals both her fears and her faith during this extremely difficult time. Both heart-wrenching and uplifting, this memoir reveals the devastating effects of traumatic brain injury and the challenging journey of recovery. BEAUTY IN THE BROKEN PLACES is an emotional and intimate tribute to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of faith and love in the face of an unexpected tragic event. I highly recommend this heartfelt memoir with its message of hope and gratitude for what we have.
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  • Kayla shaft
    January 1, 1970
    A memoir is not usually my go-to pick off the shelf, but then again I would read a grocery list if Allison Pataki had written it. While reading through Beauty in The Broken Places for the first time, it didn’t quite feel like an autobiography, and i often found myself reflecting off of the emotions on the page, never before has a book made my palms sweat and my eyes well with tears. How could it be possible for someone to make it through such traumatizing and life-altering events as David and Al A memoir is not usually my go-to pick off the shelf, but then again I would read a grocery list if Allison Pataki had written it. While reading through Beauty in The Broken Places for the first time, it didn’t quite feel like an autobiography, and i often found myself reflecting off of the emotions on the page, never before has a book made my palms sweat and my eyes well with tears. How could it be possible for someone to make it through such traumatizing and life-altering events as David and Allison did? When it came to me after the first read through that this was in fact real story, I had to go through it again. This book completely changed my perception of understanding such strong feelings of love and devotion, concepts I struggle to assimilate, and I’d like to think the cynical side of myself was substantially diminished by the time I had realized how emotional and uplifting the words of this author were. I have so much admiration for both Allison and her husband respectively, for sharing and inspiring others with their very real and very personal story, without a sugar coating. Beauty in The Broken places is an eye-opening testament to the belief that with faith, love and courage, the human spirit is capable of weathering any storm that comes our way.
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  • Rochelle Weinstein
    January 1, 1970
    I read this book in one three-hour sitting. I'm speechless. Allison Pataki is a brilliant and gifted writer. This story, though heartbreaking, was beautiful, inspiring, and left me with so much to think about. Thank you for sharing your journey with all of us.
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  • Kassandra
    January 1, 1970
    Thank You Random House and Netgalley for providing an advanced e-book copy for me to review. All opinions are my own. Allison wrote daily letters to her husband after he suffered a massive stroke. While incredibly thankful that he was alive, she was grieving for the man she once knew. With her faith and daily letters, she learned to fall in love with her husband all over again. Wow, this is an incredible memoir! I cried on more than one occasion and I can’t even imagine how difficult this must h Thank You Random House and Netgalley for providing an advanced e-book copy for me to review. All opinions are my own. Allison wrote daily letters to her husband after he suffered a massive stroke. While incredibly thankful that he was alive, she was grieving for the man she once knew. With her faith and daily letters, she learned to fall in love with her husband all over again. Wow, this is an incredible memoir! I cried on more than one occasion and I can’t even imagine how difficult this must have been for Allison. Her faith was tested in her darkest moments, but the hope is what got her through. This story just reminds us that no matter what our current situation is, there’s always something to be grateful for.
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  • Tina
    January 1, 1970
    Beauty in the Broken Places is the beautifully written memoir (and love letter) by Allison Pataki detailing the unexpected stroke her husband, Dave Levy, experienced while on a flight from Chicago to Seattle. The love that Allison and Dave have for each other is evident in the words written on these pages. That love carried them through not only years of medical school and surgical residency but the devastating medical event that occurred on their way to a much-needed vacation (“babymoon”) when Beauty in the Broken Places is the beautifully written memoir (and love letter) by Allison Pataki detailing the unexpected stroke her husband, Dave Levy, experienced while on a flight from Chicago to Seattle. The love that Allison and Dave have for each other is evident in the words written on these pages. That love carried them through not only years of medical school and surgical residency but the devastating medical event that occurred on their way to a much-needed vacation (“babymoon”) when Allison was five months pregnant. Beauty in the Broken Places is an inspiring story of love, the power of faith and always remembering how lucky you are. I highly recommend this memoir just make sure you have tissues handy!I received an advanced copy of this book; all opinions are my own.
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  • Marika
    January 1, 1970
    Stunning memoir about Allison Pataki's husband suffering a major stroke as they were on a babymoon vacation. Delicately written, but the author holds nothing back as she recounts the struggle to regain what was once lost. For readers who loved "When Breath Becomes Air" by Paul Kalanithi.I read an advance copy and was not compensated.
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  • Kayo
    January 1, 1970
    Fabulous book on a family dealing with a stroke. Heartbreaking to read, but very powerful. Thanks to author, publisher and NetGalley for the chance to read this book. While I got the book for free it had no bearing on the rating I gave it.
  • Sue
    January 1, 1970
    This is a beautifully well written memoir by Allison Pataki. At 30 years old and 5 months pregnant, she and her husband were on their way to Hawaii for a few days of rest and relaxation. Her husband, Dave, was a surgical resident who worked long hours and they both needed a few days away to relax before the baby changed their lives completely. Little did they know when they boarded the airplane, that their lives would be drastically changed before they landed. Dave had a stroke during the flight This is a beautifully well written memoir by Allison Pataki. At 30 years old and 5 months pregnant, she and her husband were on their way to Hawaii for a few days of rest and relaxation. Her husband, Dave, was a surgical resident who worked long hours and they both needed a few days away to relax before the baby changed their lives completely. Little did they know when they boarded the airplane, that their lives would be drastically changed before they landed. Dave had a stroke during the flight -an almost unknown occurrence for a young healthy person - and when they made an emergency landing, they weren't sure if he would live or die. Both families went to Fargo, ND. where the plane landed to help with the situation. What follows is such a beautiful story of family and love, friendship and faith that it brought me to tears.When Allison finds out that Dave has no memory at all and can't retain information, she writes to him every day so that when/if he regains his memory, he will be able to read what happened every day and about her concerns about their lives in the future.This is a beautiful book that is full of inspiration and love. I am so glad that I read it and highly recommend it.Thanks to the publisher for a copy of this book to read and review. All opinions are my own.
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  • Jaime
    January 1, 1970
    My eyes aren’t leaking. I promise. That’s just some drool coming out of my tear ducts.Seriously, though. This memoir is so beautifully written, and I’m so glad that the author chose to share her family’s journey.
  • Debbie
    January 1, 1970
    A book full of Faith Hope and Love, ....and the greatest of these is love! Allison and Dave have a strong love for each other; along with the love of family and friends to guide them through a shocking tragedy. This is a heartfelt book that will leave a tear in your eye, but the good kind, filled with joy and hope for this young family. Put it on your must read list!!
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  • Jen
    January 1, 1970
    May we always remember...I cannot put into words how beautiful this memoir is. It is heartbreakingly wonderful. The love between Allison and Dave is so pure, so easy to see. I could never imagine how I would be in this situation, but I would hope I would be as strong as Allison. Her words are true. They are moving and descriptive and they invite you in. She gives you a window into Dave's stroke, their long lasting relationship, and how it all intertwines. I could not recommend this memoir enough May we always remember...I cannot put into words how beautiful this memoir is. It is heartbreakingly wonderful. The love between Allison and Dave is so pure, so easy to see. I could never imagine how I would be in this situation, but I would hope I would be as strong as Allison. Her words are true. They are moving and descriptive and they invite you in. She gives you a window into Dave's stroke, their long lasting relationship, and how it all intertwines. I could not recommend this memoir enough. I received an advanced copy of this book. All opinions are mine.
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  • Diane
    January 1, 1970
    Allison Pataki's moving memoir Beauty in the Broken Places opens with a foreward by Lee Woodruff, a writer whose journalist husband Bob Woodruff suffered a traumatic brain injury covering the Iraq War. Woodruff has experienced what Pataki is about to recount in her book- her life changing in an instant.Dave and Allison are heading out for a lovely Hawaiian vacation four months before Allison is set to give birth to their baby. Dave has a grueling schedule as a third year resident, and Alli is pr Allison Pataki's moving memoir Beauty in the Broken Places opens with a foreward by Lee Woodruff, a writer whose journalist husband Bob Woodruff suffered a traumatic brain injury covering the Iraq War. Woodruff has experienced what Pataki is about to recount in her book- her life changing in an instant.Dave and Allison are heading out for a lovely Hawaiian vacation four months before Allison is set to give birth to their baby. Dave has a grueling schedule as a third year resident, and Alli is preparing for the publication of her new historical novel.While in flight, Dave turns to Allison and says he can't see out of his right eye. She sees that his pupil is severely dialated, and Dave has a stroke right there on the plane. Three medical professionals assist Dave, and the pilot lands the plane in Fargo, ND where Dave is rushed to a hospital.Allison takes us on the frightening whirlwind of calling his parents, brothers and then her family. She spends the night alone watching as her strong, vibrant husband lies hooked up to machines keeping him alive, praying he will live.Dave has suffered a severe stroke, and his road to recovery will be long and difficult. In addition to his physical impairments (she has to feed him, shave him, he has to learn to walk), he has short term memory loss.He goes from a long stay at the hospital to a rehabilitation home, and finally home to the new apartment they had rented for when the baby came. Allison's family and friends were there for her, unpacking for her, shopping, and most importantly, praying for and with her, but most of the responsibility for helping Dave rests on her shoulders.Allison's strong faith, a touchstone for her since childhood, plays a large role in the book. Her faith guides her, and when she sends out an email asking people to pray for her, she can feel the strength that those prayers gave her and Dave.She also wrote a series of letters titled "Dear Dave" to her husband, detailing everything that was happening and everything that she was feeling. As a writer, this was how she coped.When their baby Lilly is born, now Allison has to take care of Lilly and Dave. The strain is incredible, and Allison takes the reader along with her on this difficult journey. Her feelings of being overwhelmed leap off the page.Allison also takes the reader through her and Dave's courtship in college, and they were only married for eighteen months when they were tested by Dave's stroke. It takes a strong, loving relationship to make it through such a trial.One thing that I found particularly relatable- Allison said she always felt so lucky in her life, that she was waiting for the shoe to drop. I think many people feel that way.I read Beauty in the Broken Places through teary eyes for much of the first few chapters. It is hard not to feel her fear and pain. Pataki is a wonderful writer, and after reading this emotional story of the resilience of the human spirit, I will be looking to read her fiction next.
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  • Doreen Prentiss Gabriellini
    January 1, 1970
    Beauty in the Broken Places A Memoir of Love, Faith, and Resilience by Allison Patakiis a beautifully written piece of literature. While this is the first novel by Ms. Pataki that I have read, I can assure you it won’t be my last. Ms. Pataki has a wonderful command of the English Language and her words are thoughtful, remarkable and heartfelt. Having lived in New York State, I was familiar with the Governor and his family. I had heard that his daughter had written a few novels but I never got ar Beauty in the Broken Places A Memoir of Love, Faith, and Resilience by Allison Patakiis a beautifully written piece of literature. While this is the first novel by Ms. Pataki that I have read, I can assure you it won’t be my last. Ms. Pataki has a wonderful command of the English Language and her words are thoughtful, remarkable and heartfelt. Having lived in New York State, I was familiar with the Governor and his family. I had heard that his daughter had written a few novels but I never got around to reading them. Off the cuff one might think: “Oh this is the Governor’s daughter” and assume she had a leg up on the rest of the writers who were trying to be published. Let me assure you now that line of thinking is wrong. Ms. Pataki was an English Major in college. She was not published because she was some politicians daughter. She was published because she is an extraordinary writer.While I do not give spoilers, I will say that this memoir had to be heartbreaking to write. To recount the worst time in your life is not an easy thing to do. To be pregnant with your first child while you are going through the worst time in your life is not an easy thing to do. To wonder whether you will be a widow and single parent during the worst time in your life is horrendous. Ms. Pataki shares with her readers, the depth of family love not only in her immediate family but to her wider family and friends. I will say having understood that depth of love is amazing. Ms. Pataki makes you understand what her family means to her in the good and horrific times. The book is about Faith. Her faithfulness that her belief in God would see her and her loved ones through their darkest days. Naturally faith is never constant and Ms. Pataki shows her faith waivering when things get bad. She shares her immense effort to hold on to her present, left go of her past and look forward to an uncertain future. The future she had not written for herself. Resilience is a reoccuring theme throughout the book. From her husband’s, to hers, to her family’s the resilience is remarkable. As I neared the end of the book I was wondering if she would tell us how her family is now. Ms. Pataki gave us a glorious resolve to the ending. I wasn’t expecting it but I am grateful for how it summed up the memoir. This is a must read for anyone who has taken care of a loved one. It is also a must read for those whose path was not what they had written. This book affirms that you are not alone in this journey and your journey will change course. The book is joyful and sad, terrifying and ecstatic, boundless and loving. I would like to thank NetGalley, Ms. Pataki and Random House Publishing Group - Random House for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
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  • BOOKLOVER10
    January 1, 1970
    Allison Pataki attended Yale as an undergraduate, where she met and fell in love with David Levy. Dave eventually became an overworked medical student and Ali contemplated giving up journalism to try her hand at writing fiction. Just when everything seemed to be perfect—Dave was a third-year resident in orthopedic surgery, the couple had gotten married, and Alli was five months pregnant with their first child—disaster struck. On June 9, 2015, when the pair was on an airplane en route to a much-a Allison Pataki attended Yale as an undergraduate, where she met and fell in love with David Levy. Dave eventually became an overworked medical student and Ali contemplated giving up journalism to try her hand at writing fiction. Just when everything seemed to be perfect—Dave was a third-year resident in orthopedic surgery, the couple had gotten married, and Alli was five months pregnant with their first child—disaster struck. On June 9, 2015, when the pair was on an airplane en route to a much-anticipated vacation in Hawaii, David suffered a stroke and lost consciousness. This was shocking because Alli's husband was only thirty, ate nutritiously, and was an exceptional athlete who kept himself in shape.The author goes back and forth in time, recalling her early years with Dave, who was a kind and considerate boyfriend. She fast-forwards to the harrowing weeks and months after the stroke, when Dave was struggling to think and speak coherently and regain his physical strength. Alli feared that, even if Dave managed to survive, his mind and personality would no longer be the same. Unless his brain could form new pathways, he would have difficulty communicating and relating emotionally to his wife and soon-to-be-born child. Returning to medicine would be out of the question.Allison kept notes and composed letters that she planned to show Dave in the future. Writing this book was a catharsis; it afforded her the chance to make sense of what she and Dave had endured. Pataki knows how lucky Davy was to receive phenomenal care from a team of dedicated professionals, and how fortunate they both were to have had the support of many generous and compassionate friends and relatives. Although "Beauty in the Broken Places" breaks little new ground as a medical memoir, it is a moving and heartfelt testament to the importance of faith, resilience, hope, and patience during times of crisis.
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